Occasionally I meet people who say they don’t know what their passions are. In many cases they are excited about the idea of finding out what their passions are and getting clear on how to move towards them. Sometimes however, they are not. This always amazes me and I ask myself why wouldn’t someone want to move towards a life that is full of passion, fulfillment, excitement and joy? Finding out what your passions are is one of the greatest gifts one can receive. Why would someone choose not to know?
The likely answer is FEAR in one of its many forms. After all the first step to living a passionate life is Commitment, that is making a strong commitment to yourself to choose in favor of your passions when ever you are faced with a choice, decision or opportunity. For some people this brings up any of a number of fears:
- fear of not being capable
- fear of stepping outside of their comfort zone
- fear that following their passion may cause conflict in their relationships and especially those clsoe to them
- fear that it may require a lot of work
- issues around deservibility
- fear of failing
- fear of being ridiculed or judged by others
- that is may cost money
- etc., etc., etc.
There are many fears that come up when we choose to follow our passions and this is a normal part of the process. Its the area where we will be stretched to grow beyond where we are now, to reach for something bigger and greater and unknown. Overcoming your fears is part of the journey and in many ways, what makes it worthwhile. After all, who would want to travel down a fast-flowing and beautiful river, without taking in every moment of the ride along the way?
Question…What fears are holding you back from living your passions?
