Recently I have been ending my communications with the line “Wishing you great experiences!” because when I spent a few minutes thinking about what I really wished for those in my life, the answer came back… Great Experiences!
A recent book promoted and written by Gallup researchers called Wellbeing: The Five Essential Elements supports my thinking. It discusses the relationship between money and happiness with the conclusion that money can buy happiness. The real key however, is that it buys good experiences. And good experiences includes giving, gift giving and the expression of gratitude. Now why is that? Because with experiences you get more bang for your buck. Think about it. There is the planning stage - fun! Think about how you feel when planning your next vacation. The experience and anticipation has already started. Then of course, the time when you are actively engaged in doing the thing itself. And of course, for months and even years afterwards, the memories from the experience. That’s a lot of value for your $$. Now compare the boost you get from a material purchase. It lasts for a while but wears off over time.
There are also experiences of giving and expressing gratitude. Finding the perfect gift for someone, planning a special event or doing something for someone, or something as simple as writing out a thank you card. These are all great experiences that last much longer and create a sense of wellbeing for the giver and the reciever.
And of course, many wonderful experiences don’t have to cost a penny: watching the sunset, giving a loved one a hug or a kiss, listening to the birds sing, enjoying a walk outdoors, phoning a friend, spending time with your children or grandchildren.
So as we are about to embark on another great summer here in Winnipeg, my greatest wish for you, where ever you are, is many, many great experiences!
